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Wednesday, August 23, 2006 || Quote of the Day (23rd Aug) and Friends
to do the things you have to do"
A friend just commented to me that I haven't been blogging with regularity... Well, I guess so... Dr Love is out of action for a while... With the recent work piling and stress generated thru them, I think my mind has been pushed to a new limit. Previously, I tot that blogging is one of the ways of letting my frens noe my situation, like how I am doing, blah blah blah... But actually now, I tink meeting up is better... met up with quite a number of my old frens recently... from sec sch, hall... probably going to have a great one in late sept with my hall buddies... The other reason is to share my thoughts on stuff... u noe, relationships etc etc... But now, I am considering to end this blog... perhaps I shld put the effort in contacting n catching up with my frens, rather than spending time on this keyboard... though it still remains a convenient method...
Was out with my two best friends, Wanbing and Agnes today, had a dinner at a Viet restaurant along Siglap are... Food tastes pretty good, great for a change actually...after that we went to Coffee Club for a drink before dropping by Pie Factory... Well well well, found out some interesting stuff abt my other sec sch frens, and how I kena stirred when I nvr even do anything.... but one of the main topics was the behaviour of sec sch kids nowadays... Wanbing was telling us the things kids do nowadays, and seriously, I do admit that I got a shock or so... Pretty extreme if you ask me... I really dun wan to get into details of that...
On the way back, Agnes and I were having conversations abt how some frens simply click with some, while others nvr seem to get any sort of conversations going... Sometimes, to an extent, I think it DOES has to do with effort... and best example is me, wb and agnes, we won't be speaking like we did tonite unless we make the effort to meet up once in a while to catch up n stuff... There are also some others, whom I actually got to know much better later in life than when in sch... well, in such cases, I guess fate presents us with a chance to further the friendship, so whether we grab it or not, it is entirely up to us... There are others whom lost contact somewhere down the line... perhaps unconsciously or consciously, there is a decision made to stop contact, u noe sms, email, msn, fone, everything jus ended... then later, contact numbers change n stuff... so friendships are lost. I guess tat's tat... it is still up to ur own individual decision to do so... So guys and gals, cherish ur frens... try to catch up once in a while... coz i tink friends are one of the best things to happen in life...
Hisashi Mitsui |8/23/2006 11:57:00 PM
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Sunday, August 20, 2006 || Quote of the Day (20th Aug) & FATE
You think everything is set in your favour,
but life put many curves in your path.
Is it easier to fall for someone u dun really noe or easier to fall for a fren u knew? A friend whom I have not seen for pretty long ever said to me this, that to some, it is easier to fall for the former due to that feeling of unknown, or mystery... "What you dunno, wont hurt" as the saying goes... so perhaps, what u dunno, will remain perfect n nice as u wan to imagine it to be... n sometimes when reality hits, relationships ends... I guess that's how many people had short relationships...
On the other hand, the mysterious feeling could end up being nice, and wonderful... sometimes u imagine how this person will be like, and he/she ended up being somewhat like how u will imagine him/her to be, it felt sweet... and perhaps even think that fate has to do with it... bringing someone to u, with the chemistry, the "feel-good" feeling...
How much has FATE has to do with all these? Sometimes, the timing matters... Like u meet this person, whom is someone nice and someone whom u would like, but coz she/he is already with another person, u drop the idea of going after her/him... And as time goes, u met someone else, got together with her/him... and this original person become single... Worse, u hesitated abt going after this one person u like, and she/he ended up together with someone else soon after... Isn't that how FATE could toy with us?
Life is as such, and there is probably nothing we can do abt it... Like the quote says, the curves and twists put u in an entirely different outcome altogether... The only thing we could do is the choose your path wisely, and have no regrets in ur choices... as long as u dun tink abt how another path will lead u to... u will hv little to regret abt...
Hisashi Mitsui |8/20/2006 08:38:00 PM
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Saturday, August 19, 2006 || I want to buy...
There is so much I wan to buy...
1) Liverpool Jerseys (Goodness, they r bac with Adidas... I have to get it!!!)
2) A new computer
3) More movies DVD
4) PSP
God... there is so many things I have to get my hands on...
Hisashi Mitsui |8/19/2006 01:57:00 PM
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(0) comments The Breakup and thoughts
Click here to see trailer
The movie is pretty much what the title says... THE BREAKUP... duh, wat do u expect? Anyway, it is quite a cool show... It shows how a couple can turn from really sweet and nice pair of lovers, to disliking and totally hating each other, to a stage whereby they are doing things just to spite and hurt the other... And it all started with 3 lemons... haha... No lah... kidding lah... it was more than that...
The scene I love love love abt the movie is the first fight scene where they bring out all the past and nasty things they HATE abt each other over the years.... I think that is very very real... I guess the problem with many relationship, is that these unhappy and nasty things r kept within becos they tink that they should tolerate the partner ie. communications... Fact of the matter is, if u wan to keep it within, then learn to forget and forgive it, and not keep it and let it boil, like hot water on a stove.... So if u cant do that, let it out... but in a nice subtle way at a appropriate timing... On the other hand, SAY IT OUT LOUD WHEN U LOVE THE PERSON... seriously, I mean that is what communication is... not only should the bad things be transpired... the good things too... Really a fruit for thought... Nitez....
Hisashi Mitsui |8/19/2006 12:39:00 AM
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Thursday, August 17, 2006 || The 300th Entry
Yst X-ray's result showed I really had a hair line fracture on my last rib on the right... from where, I dunno... But WTH, I probably can't run or play basketball for these two weeks due to the pain... KNS ah...
Been a while since I posted something in discussion, so let me try one today... Today, my colleagues and I chatted, and the topic is - High Maintainence... Well, let me first attempt to define what is that... High maintainence girlfriend : A gf who needs lots of attention and money to satisfy... well, his question is, how to identify if a gf is high maintainence or not, before getting together? Frankly, I also dunno... But for me, I had high maintainence gf before... To some extent, I dun mind that... But a little personal space will be good at times... I think in relationships, it is important to give your partner some personal time... time to do things he like, eg. play games, sports, watch soccer etc... time to meet his frens... time to watch shows he like... basically, personal space... I tink everyone needs personal space most of the time... it is jus whether he can forgo that to accompany u to do something... I tink sometimes tat can be done... and everything can be negotiated, but never try to force ur issue too much...
Hisashi Mitsui |8/17/2006 08:05:00 PM
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Monday, August 14, 2006 || Responsibility
Responsibility - Something for which one is responsible; a duty, obligation, or burden.
Responsible - the social force that binds you to your obligations and the courses of action demanded by that force
This word was brought to me by our of my big bosses... Very interesting... It brings a lot of thoughts to my mind... Responsibility is something can be applied almost everywhere in life... When you are borned, you have a responsibility as a child to your parents, then as a student, then as a bf/gf, then as a worker, some lucky ones will have the responsibility of being a boss... then further in your life, your responsibility as a parent, as a grandparent... Goodness... what a long list...
Good Night and Good Luck....
Hisashi Mitsui |8/14/2006 07:30:00 PM
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Friday, August 11, 2006 || Movie Review - My Girl and I
This is what the girl said before she died,
And I am thankful that it's you I should thank.
You are the sea of my life.
So I am sorry. I am sorry I can't stay next to you, and sorry I loved you.
Please be happy. Because I love you, you must be happy.
Do you understand me? Will you promise me?
That you'll be happy, that you'll be well...
This is the trailer... Some kind soul uploaded the movie on youtube or u can click the link below to view.
My girl and I - Part 1
My girl and I - Part 2
My girl and I - Part 3
My girl and I - Part 4
My girl and I - Part 5
My girl and I - Part 6
My girl and I - Part 7
My girl and I - Part 8
My girl and I - Part 9
My girl and I - Part 10
I must say I am really impressed with Korean movies so far, whether is it romantic or horror. 4/5 pop corns.
Hisashi Mitsui |8/11/2006 02:16:00 PM
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Thursday, August 10, 2006 || Pictures from the BBQ
The fav food of the nite...
and
Sparklers for the nite
Arthas and Carol
and
Joke of the nite... The "roller gun"... want money or live?
In case u wondering where i am... someone got to take the pic... haha...
Hisashi Mitsui |8/10/2006 08:48:00 PM
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Tuesday, August 08, 2006 || Street Soccer @ NTU and a BAD Injury
Sometimes, a little time away would actually do good... I dunno how true is that... But I would say it is true that it definitely make u miss that person... Though it could be a couple of weeks, due to work or even travel, u realise how much u miss that person... How much u want to meet that person... It could be a fren, or gf/bf, or just family... So do treasure ur loved ones, and treat them well... But do give them space as well... Havent seen a couple of close frens for pretty long liao... Hmm... make a note to catch up...
During today's session, I think I got a bump on my right rib cage... Anyway, there is a spot which is swollen... Feels bad, I can't even turn when sleeping without feeling pain... Goodness... going to be out of action for a while manz...
Hisashi Mitsui |8/08/2006 11:45:00 PM
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Monday, August 07, 2006 || What you want in your job?
My boss was in the opinion that life is as such, either u accept it or u dun... If u accept the job nature, stay... if u dun, quit... fair enuffm I tink... But what abt those pple who are bonded? to them, quitting is not an option... It becomes only an option when u ended ur bond, which by then, u would hv spend a good part of ur working life with whichever company u r bonded to...
I guess, it really depends on what is the most important to you... To some, it could be the money... or job satisfaction... or working hours... or working environment... or a good boss... or good colleagues... or challenging job nature... Frankly, I love half of my job, sometimes totally hated the other half of it, I have a great boss now, some of the best frens I can ask for in my colleagues, probably going to hv weird working hours soon... so-so working environment... challenging? I tink it is getting boring... but the worst is I am still bonded for 3 years... So I am kind of stuck here... So I tried not to tink abt it for the time being... But the most sucky thing of being stuck in a bond, is CHOICE... or rather the lack of it... But I guess end of the day, u probably cant get everything that suit u... Well, tat's life... For me, if i can get something which suits me 80%, I tink i will be happy with it...
Hisashi Mitsui |8/07/2006 08:35:00 PM
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Sunday, August 06, 2006 || Dragon Tiger Gate and 5566 - Open Arms
The MTV below is 5566's Open Arms, also from Mr Fighting. Enjoy...
Hisashi Mitsui |8/06/2006 06:46:00 PM
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Abt a few weeks ago, a fren of mine asked me abt dropping hints... So we ended up with a discussion of what kind of hints, who gave the hints etc... I think hints are generally divided into two main types, positive which usually done with good intentions as such wanting to get together, or negative which is tagged with rejections and stuff....
First of all, I think that as far as dropping hints is concerned, u shld look at ur target, ie. the person whom u wan the hint to work on... if he/she is a perfect idiot in understanding hints, then ur hints got to be stronger... for example, if "this place is interesting, perhaps we can come here sometime" doesnt work, then try "this place is interesting, perhaps we shld set a date to come here"... The second set has a more positive and direct tone which implies that an action shld be carried out and that is setting the date... on the other hand, when u r executing negative hints, it depends on what "level" of persistence this person belongs to... eg. "I am busy this week", would be better if it is "I dun tink I have time to meet u"... the first one could suggest that u might be available the following week... the more persistent this person is, the more direct ur hints got to be... and frankly, in terms of negative hints, I think there is no good holding back, fearing to hurt the person... coz it is better to reject a person before dating the person than after dating the person, as the dates would perhaps lead him/her on for a little more than u shld....
On the other hand, it is also impt to be realistic... some pple expect the target to achieve the same level of "liking" for him/her after a certain number of outings... now, first of all, if these outings are in groups, and the frequency is like, once a mth or something, then forget it!!! I mean, seriously, if u develop a liking for the person during these outings and expect him/her to have the same liking, dun dream !!! What makes u tink the person would take an extra attention to u when there is so many other pple ard? Different pple fall for girls/guys differently... not everyone can develop a liking based only on physical attraction... Unless during the outings, u tend to have one-on-one conversations with him/her, then perhaps it is possible...
In summary, dun expect too much, when u r dropping super subtle hints... esp when u r not even close frens with this person... go on a more direct mode... then dun expect miracles to happen when u drop hints, u like the person doesnt mean the person like u, or rather know u enuff to like u... lastly, if u r the person receiving hints... dun tink too much... they may not be hints afterall... haha...
Enjoy the rest of the weekend my friends !!!
Hisashi Mitsui |8/06/2006 01:15:00 AM
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Saturday, August 05, 2006 || A tiring two days...
Surprisingly, Gracie was playing volleyball at SPE too... so rene, me and her went to Adam Road Hawker Centre for dinner... Quite a good prawn mee stall recommended by rene... they claimed that they do not use MSG... the thing I like abt theirs is that traditional prawn mee stall usually have pretty sucky dry ones since their selling point is usually the soup... But this stall's dry one is actually quite good I would say... 2/3 chopsticks !!! haha....
Hisashi Mitsui |8/05/2006 12:46:00 AM
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Tuesday, August 01, 2006 || The natural way of falling...
Yet, due to youth at that time, most of the time, nothing concrete was done, or said... even when both parties knew something was going on, but they might just end up as friends only... U dun desire anything but jus to see her/him... u dun need anything but jus a smile... Life was simple back then... no such thing as give and take, coz everything that comes is something of a bonus.... no such thing as demand, coz anything that comes will make ur day...
However, the sweet and fond memories that is left behind, is probably one of the best u hv from those fun years in sch... and this person will also forever hold a special place in ur heart... no matter how old u r, married or not, in contact with the person or not...
I am lucky enuff to experience this twice in my lifetime... Perhaps we shld all look back at our past and reflect on the demands we made to our gf/bf... is it fair to them? With the various types of other demands in life, esp from work... perhaps we shld give them a little bit more care, a little bit more space, a little bit more love, a little bit more attention... and not demand for anything in return... and perhaps learn to appreciate the same things that will make our days in the past, tat will bring a smile to our faces... even a small gesture... then perhaps relationships will be happier, more fulfilling, and couples are more appreciative of each other rather than picking on the negative asepcts of the relationship... A fruit for thought...
Enjoy this MTV from 5566 - Won't Give Up... seriously I quite like them, since the days of MVP Valentine... This is another one of their ballets... one of the songs from the taiwanese show, Mr Fighting, starring 5566 and Sweety. Enjoy !!!
Hisashi Mitsui |8/01/2006 08:26:00 PM
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