The best kind of love is the kind that wakes us all, make us reach for more... plants the fire in our heart and bring peace to our minds...

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Wednesday, September 27, 2006 || The Classic (Korean 2003) Youtube

Enjoy

Hisashi Mitsui |9/27/2006 09:10:00 PM
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Sometimes, I find it amazing how "loser" some pple can be... Those of u who dunno... I am a huge transformers fan... They have a "alternators" series who uses cars from modern days, eg. Subaru WRX, Honda S2000 etc, as their transformers... and I love that series... So some time ago, I started collecting them, buying them from the net... I got abt 7 of them so far...

Sometime before my project started back abt 2 weeks plus ago, I found this bugger on yahoo auction who happen to have a lot of those i havent got... So i offered to purchase from him... 5 of them to be exact... but due to the project, i told him, i will collect after the project ends... we agreed on the price... at first, he agreed to reserve them as well... then he decided that he wan to collect some "deposit" from me... for me, if i dun see the toys, or goods, no money out, unless it is small amt... coz u nvr noe how idiotic or ass**le some pple will be... so fair enuff, i told him, if he find any buyers before my project ends, go ahead n sell them... we take it as no deal for the moment... if he still have the toys, then fine...

Anyway, after my project, I managed to get two of the toys i wanted in Far East, at a cheaper price too... so when this guy msg me, i told him i only wan 3 of the toys... he offered a price which i tink is a little steep, considering the cheap price i got from Far East... so i counter-proposed, but he refused to lower the price... so fine... no deal loh...

after a while, he msg me saying that he tot i was not the type who negotiate for lower deals, blah blah blah... I mean, like duh... if i can get the toys at a cheaper rate, why shld i buy from u? if he had reserved the toys, then i wouldnt hv went to Far East, but would hv gotten it from him direct... loser !!! why is there such weird Ass**le out there?

Hisashi Mitsui |9/27/2006 06:42:00 PM
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Tuesday, September 26, 2006 || Honesty in relationships...

Honesty in relationship... I think that is something which is lacking in a lot of relationships... put it a little more direct, it still boils down to communications... bringing ur thoughts to other party...

I think it is good to be honest... but the problem with modern-day relationships is that guys are too honest, and girls just dun wan to say wat they feel... expectations are just different... the pace of modern life has also placed an unknown stress on the relationships nowadays... people expects results... they expect tons from their partners, and when they dun, they move on... until they found someone who can... girls expect their bf to know what they r thinking... guys, on the other hand, expect their gf to follow their traits of thoughts, do wat they tink is right... compromise level is not high anymore... in olden days... u heard of things like elope, just to be together with someone they love... now, in the world of free love, things has changed.... people no longer appreciate the little things done... the little gesture... a lot of things are taken for granted...

All I wan is someone honest, faithful and appreciative...

Hisashi Mitsui |9/26/2006 10:51:00 AM
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Friday, September 22, 2006 || Jay Chou's Bai Se Feng Ce

I love this song the first time I heard it... one of the new songs from Jay's new album...

My project is finally over... And I cleared my IPPT this morning, with a silver award... SONG !!! Everything work related is over... I am glad, relieved, and happy... Very long since I got this kind of feeling... Now, got a few things to settle between I leave for Australia in late Oct.

Enjoy this song !!!

Hisashi Mitsui |9/22/2006 06:08:00 PM
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Wednesday, September 20, 2006 || Do you like rainy days?

Been really busy... but it is soon coming to an end, at 1300H... a relief rather than happy... After that, will need to settle some stuff before going Australia for 6 weeks...

I asked a fren yst of whether she like rainy days better... her reply, it's good to sleep in... Indeed, frankly, sometimes, I do like rainy days... the cooling weather... it is jus shiok to hide under the blanket and sleep in... sometimes I like to look at the rain... there was once I was driving home... and the rain was so heavy that I just decided to go onto the road shoulder and waited for the rain to get lighter... I jus sat there, looking at the rain fall from the sky onto my wind screen... it seems so peaceful... no troubles... Life is already so busy in Singapore... sometimes it is good to just stop and slow yourself down... look at the simple things in life... and think abt the little things your loved ones do for you... perhaps today, you can do something nice to your loved ones and thank him/her for their effort...

Hisashi Mitsui |9/20/2006 08:53:00 PM
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Thursday, September 14, 2006 || Jay Chou's Faraway

I quite like this new Jay Chou's album... has a number of nice songs... here is one... faraway, by him and Fei Yu Qing... Enjoy...

Hisashi Mitsui |9/14/2006 10:26:00 AM
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I was talking to a fren yst, and this thingy pops up... and i was telling her why I tink short relationships exist...

I think it is mostly attributed to how girls and guys fall in love... or rather tink they fall in love... firstly, I tink most girls are blinded by this thing called chemistry, the "I feel good ard him" factor... they can be spending a whole night with a group of frens, but jus a few exchanges of glances and less than 10 sentences, n she tink that there is chemistry... As for guys, i personally tink they are blinded by lust... no no... not the sexual lust, though it can be included too, but also lust for companionship, lust of trying to get out of singlehood, lust of having someone ard, lust of beauty... in the end, these two types of factors, coupled with a certain degree of impulse by both girls and guys, end up the two in a relationship... some become a couple with less than 2 weeks of friendship between them... in the end, their relationship last anything between 1 week to 3 mths depending on how high their tolerance is... but after a while, they were learn the differences between them and realise it is better they parted because they r not in something they wan... Lucky ones coincidentially do find the ones they can be together thru this... then that is where FATE plays a part...

Hisashi Mitsui |9/14/2006 10:12:00 AM
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Tuesday, September 12, 2006 || The Classic (Korean 2003)

I just watched the THE CLASSIC, lent to me by a close fren... It is.... Well, Fantastic... A epic movie, a romantic story, one of the best I have seen... Those who knows me will know me will know how much I love THE NOTEBOOK... but this movie is right up there with it... Starring SON Ye-Jin, becoming one of my fav female movie stars, the movie started in a jovial mood with a young girl taking a look at her parent's things. Among them, is a book, which is written by her mother, abt her love, or rather first love. She soon read it with interest, and found herself caught in a same situation as her mother, A Love Triangle, and at the wrong end. Soon, the story of her mother's lovelife starts to grow in her.... The ending was both sad and sweet... If you watch it, u will know what I mean...

Work has killed me... The chaos yst at work practically killed me... I am exhausted, but knew there is still 9 days to go... Got these 2 messages from my boss,

"Hope 2day was better 4 u than yst. Learn n keep all e gd advice n don't repeat mistakes. Take this as a learning experience n u will b amazed at wat u can achieve at e end of tis ex. Rest well coz it's gonna b a long 2 wks."

"We hv all been there. Waz important is nvr 2 let e flame extinguish, no matter how small it may be. If u can do dat, then everything is possible n one day dat flame will become an inferno. Bear dat in mind."

Seriously, I think I have a GREAT GREAT boss... I have met good bosses... But this current one, nothing bad I can say... He is ever supportive, and helpful and generous in every way... advices, meals, and ever thankful for the work that we, as his men, did... If I ever to leave the organisation, this boss will definitely be one co-worker which I will miss...

Hisashi Mitsui |9/12/2006 10:27:00 PM
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Wednesday, September 06, 2006 || It Had to be You (HK)

A couple of days more of stress... Everything is falling in place... Still, I had to fight fire for the next 2 weeks... Oh well... I can't complain much... I am going to have a long break soon in Nov... In Australia... I am so looking forward to that break... I guess it is not just a break... but also a mental and emotional break... away from the country, practically away from everything...

Just watched the show "It Had to be You"... it is a Hong Kong show from 2005, starring Karena Lam (Jill) and Ekin Cheng (Jack). They are partners at work at a restaurant. Turns out they shared the same fate... They are both "backup lovers" to their respective bf/gf. Ekin found out later while Karena was consciously being the backup. Soon, they became frens and confide to each other abt their unusual relationships. Cris cross their lives, and you probably guess it, they fell for each other... deciding not to play second feeble anymore... The show is nice, fondling with the emotions of the characters, playing with their hearts... Definitely not a far-fetched show... 3.5/5 popcorns...

Watching the show, makes me wonder why some pple are willing to do that... you know, to be someone else's second gf or part-time gf... or bf... I mean, seriously, why would you want to subject yourself to such emotional hurt and torture? Is the guy/girl THAT good? I used to have a fren in such a situation... basically, she was like the guy's companion... When he fancy, he will msg her, ask her out... if he doesnt, he will jus ignore her calls and msg... well, you can probably guess how my fren was feeling... happy when he calls, lost when he doesnt... As A fren, I have given her my advice to leave him... But somehow, it doesnt work... For whatever reason, I dunno... sigh... so frens, if u r in such a situation, get out as soon as possible... There will be more reward in staying in such a relationship... there is no trust nor commitment, no love nor compassion... Get out !!!

Hisashi Mitsui |9/06/2006 11:29:00 PM
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Tuesday, September 05, 2006 || Acne outbreak vs Stress

Goodness, I have been experiencing an acne outbreak recently, one after another though, not many at one time... But still... sigh... was really wondering how come... then I realise it is probably due to all the stress from work... All the rush factors... trying to finish all the work... then changes come abt... seriously endless... Now, I am quite sure I can earn more with the amt of work I am doing... Just whether I can find this amt of work outside or not...

Just wonder the other day, how do people react when they found out that someone is interested/after them? of coz, let's go into the different categories... first of all, someone you are NOT interested... option 1) act blur, this is probably one of the most effective method of all. Simply coz there is no actions required, no awkward moments as well... 2) Tell him/her a crap reason that a relationship is not possible. This is better for guys who are better with words, and dun like to drag stuff. Also, if the person drops the bomb, this situation is probably necessary...

Second type, for someone you ARE interested... u may say, simple... Just go ahead with the relationship... ah... the qn says, "found out"... first of all, pls pls pls, make sure the info is correct... secondly, if u r interested in the person... all the more u shld make the situation easy and memorable for both of you... U noe, perhaps over a nice candle-light dinner... Just pop the question... On the other hand, if you are a girl, it is not exactly easy to do that... So what to do? Seriously, I also dunno... my suggestions might be too difficult for some... hints dun always work... so u got to see what kind of hints to give for what type of pple... some guys can be really "blur" or "clueless" abt hints...

Hisashi Mitsui |9/05/2006 10:34:00 PM
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Sunday, September 03, 2006 || Suay Weekend and jealousy

What can I say? The suay-ness is back to haunt me... One after another, first, I carelessly turn my rear wheel round a kerb and damaging my rear bumper... Now, my comp jus died on me... I swear it was working fine when I left home yst, and when I am back, it just died... I dun even noe how or when it died... Now, I am in the midst of TRYING to revive it... Software, I think I may have some clue... but seems like it is a hardware problem... keep having blue screens... leaving me clueless of what exactly is wrong... goodness.... What have I done to deserve this?

One more week before the exercise starts.... means, one more week of hell... and then, fire fighting starts... sigh... sometimes, I really wonder if I could earn more if I were to work outside... doing the same amount of work...

On Fri, went COMEX with some of my colleagues. On the way to EXPO, outside the MRT station, I saw a couple quarreling, they were shouting and screaming at each other pretty loudly... seems like they were quarreling abt the guy hitting on a girl or something like tat... and the guy was explaining tat it was work n stuff...

Jealousy... something which, in my opinion, often kills a relationship... But on the other hand, a relationship cannot be without it... I think it all boils down to TRUST... first of all, some guys and gals jus get jealous easily when their other half is talking with to someone of the opp sex... I mean, come on, it is jus talking... to me ah, if ur other half wan to go astray... he/she wont do it in front of u... It also reflects on one's confidence as well... Think abt this, for example, a guy like me.... goodness, not even half of andy lau or aaron kwok, and the gf is worried that some other girl will fall for him?? dream on !!! To convince your guys and gals, let me tell u a true story....

There is a man who is a bus driver. He is neither handsome or rich... But he is honest looking and a simple man without much education either... He got lucky and ended up marrying beautiful woman who is rich as well... Every mth, the man passed all his pay to his wife, who will save it up for them, and gives him 20 bucks for daily expense when he goes to work... He returns home everyday after work, and seldom go out with his frens. Then suddenly, he told the wife he wanted a divorce, coz he fell for some other woman. The woman is neither as beautiful or nice as the wife. Seeing that love is no longer in the air for them, the wife agreed to divorce. My point with this true story is this : If your other half wants to go astray, there is practically nothing you can do to stop him/her... no matter how much you control, get jealous or kick a fuss out of something... It is jus like flying a kite, let it go too loose, it goes out of control... pulled too hard, the string breaks...

Hisashi Mitsui |9/03/2006 12:51:00 PM
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Saturday, September 02, 2006 || Communications

Sorry my frens... I actually wanted to shift the blog to livejournal, but really cant find the time... So I end up just changing the weblink... Coz i realise there is a lot of "unknown" people reading my bloggy... Anyway, I still pretty much enjoy blogging...

Was out with Peline yst for lunch, during my off-day... I was telling how my various encounters with girls, whether was it my ex-gf or the gf of my frens... I realised most girls dun like to communicate their unhappines with their bf... Most of them choose to put in inside them... Some was hoping that the bf realise their "unhappiness".... Others jus tink that they can put it inside them and dissolve it over time... But more often than not, the thing jus boils like hot water... In one of my previous post, I mentioned that it is normal to demand things from your partner, demand that he/she behaves or does certain things... Well, the demand got to be put across in the first place... If you dun place the order, u expect the goods to come? Dun tink so...

Hisashi Mitsui |9/02/2006 01:10:00 PM
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